I will never change my mind about that.”
I would generally agree with you. However, my daughter died several years ago. When her son (my grandson) turned 18 the first thing he did was go get a tat of a cross on his back bearing the name of his mom. He rarely goes shirtless and I know one of the reasons he did it was because his dad told him not to. Parents were divorced and he did it not only to honor his mom but in a show of defiance to his dad.
My comment about tattoos looking trashy is solely for women who have them.
Guys having them doesn’t usually bother me. My Husband has them and I think he looks sexy with them as part of the entire package.