“rebutting these people with baseball bats.”
There were times I wanted to do that to my former coworker. She is a lesbian and all she talked about during lunch was Dildos, body functions, and sex jokes, and to top it all off she is Bi-polar. I always went to my car to eat my lunch I did not want to eat with her. If I sat by myself she would get a seat near me so I said forget it, I’m eating my lunch in the car. Glad I’m not working in my former job with her nor would I want to work with her anywhere. She snaps at everyone.
From what I have learned about Lesbians, I can say they are very different from male homosexuals, both in demeanor and intent. Most of them would have difficulty attracting a male, and so they proactively reject men to avoid the possibility of being hurt. Those that are beautiful and attractive were often the victims of past abuse by men, and don't want any more of it. As for your coworker, she was probably on the prowl. Some of them have very strong sex drives, like men. Could be an endocrinal problem.
Lesbians are generally far more monogamous than are male homosexuals, who mostly have no interest whatsoever in monogamy. In fact, the concept is anathema to being "gay".