Not a direct answer, but...
My sister, 10 years of heterosexual marriage, plus 23 years of single heterosexual life:
Children: Yes
Domestic violence calls: 0
Drunken/Drugged texts: 0
Family saving her from immediate danger: 0
Rapes: 0
Welfare: No
5 years of homosexual life:
Children: A dog and a cat
Domestic violence/arrests: 4 that we know of
Drunken/Drugged texts: Several times/week
Family saving her from immediate danger: 2
Rapes: 1 (admittedly homosexual in nature while under influence.)
Welfare: Yes.
Guess which lifestyle we prefer?
I should add; the last time we were at a family function together she threatened to stab our mother if she didn’t shut her f>>>ing mouth and kick me in the face if I used the phrase “man boobs” ever again.
Hard to distinguish where the drugs end and the mental illness starts. In any case, her lover is an enabler and also physically abusive law enforcement.