I suggest that you buy a self-contained Bluetooth speakerphone for car - say, one of BlueAnt's products. I have an S4 from them, and it works pretty good. Nothing to solder :-) You don't even need to plug it in, as it has a battery inside, but I do. The battery will then charge automatically. You can also talk to it - and it works well for me.
The car's speakers won't be used (without soldering :-) but you can be up and running in minutes.
sit down before you hurt yourself
I agree. Blue Ant is great. I used one for years, then bought a new truck that had built in Bluetooth. The Blue Ant is actually more reliable.