[PapaBear3625]

I don’t want a man who salivates over slutty trash low-class women, including just because they dressed that way (their choice). I’d agree, but you can’t have it both ways. Marrying the steady girl while lusting after the sluts.

Why not? There's an old saying that the ideal woman is one who is "a lady in the parlor and a harlot in the bedroom".

Men don't want sluts, which has traditionally been defined as a woman who is willing to sleep with lots of men, and who doesn't value herself.

Men DO want a woman with a high libido, who is eager to have sex with HER man, wherever, whenever, and in whichever position. If all the woman wants to do is "be his best friend", men have lots of guys to hang out with (and who give him much less drama).

[the OlLine Rebel]

You are putting words in my mouth (or my fingers). How did you infer what you did?

“Lusting after the sluts” means that the fact he is drooling after sexpots implies he will be unreliable and not a good mate. If you know what I mean. Nothing to do with how sexy the wife is. I don’t want a roving man.

Your voluminous prose related to something I did not state, implies sex is indeed all men want.

BTW, being best friends IS very important. At least (realistically), being good friends is very much so.

I do think down deep, maybe only tapped when they actually find one, most men really do want “love”, are romantic and loving when faced with the real prospect, not just sex. Which is NOT love.