I agree. And what makes it worse is us fat people kick ourselves all the time. It took me years to loose the weight, not easy, and was a strugle to stay thin untill I figured out a method that worked for me.
With what is being learned about the way hormones and also gut bugs determine what you eat and whether the food is told to become part of your reserves, we should realize that for some (not all) being fat is hardly their fault.