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Amazing that every generation before has somehow managed to survive without today's helicopter parents, CPS and the cops.

The comments section is a must read.

1 posted on 03/22/2015 3:57:54 PM PDT by bgill
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Things have changed from the days of ‘be home before sunset.’


2 posted on 03/22/2015 4:01:22 PM PDT by skeeter
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What’s left unspoken is that Democrat women are the ones who accomplished this codification of infantilization.

Then they divorced their husbands, got addicted to antidepressants, became white wine alcoholics and started screwing teenage boys.

Democrat women, Ready For Hillary.


3 posted on 03/22/2015 4:04:46 PM PDT by Talisker (One who commands, must obey.)
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blogger Christine Whitley reprinted a checklist from a 1979

And I'm sure the blogger took full credit and claimed to be the author.

4 posted on 03/22/2015 4:05:03 PM PDT by humblegunner
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Comment section is mostly about the poster’s childhood or parenting so I’ll start: My 74 year old brother walked several blocks to kindergarten and when he was in second grade he went to another school even further away. He had to walk to the library and then catch a public bus the rest of the way, without anyone with him or so he claims. I’m almost 8 years younger and a girl so I think by then my parents were more protective. I’m pretty sure however that I walked at least four blocks home from kindergarten. I do remember getting lost. I also however remember wandering off at the age of about 3 and my mother totally freaking out. I was following the guy with the camera and the pony. I have a photo of that day. I guess my mom figured if I really wanted to sit on the pony that much she would pay for it. I was totally a free range kid. And I was the youngest. My mother and grandmother were both home. The one time my older brother was told to keep an eye on me he tied me to the garage door.


6 posted on 03/22/2015 4:07:57 PM PDT by Mercat
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Everyone should go to the comments section and read the spot on “we didn’t have the green thing” response.

Wonderful truth hammer.


7 posted on 03/22/2015 4:08:00 PM PDT by Covenantor ("Men are ruled...by liars who refuse them news, and by fools who cannot govern." Chesterton)
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1970's photo: 1970s Datsun 1970sDatsun.jpg
8 posted on 03/22/2015 4:09:44 PM PDT by Snickering Hound
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today, Mom and Dad may as well walk the little ones to school, because they don’t have jobs and thus have nothing else to do, and they can’t sit around grandma’s basement and play X-box ALL day....


10 posted on 03/22/2015 4:13:11 PM PDT by bigbob (The best way to get a bad law repealed is to enforce it strictly. Abraham Lincoln)
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8. Can he travel alone in the neighborhood (four to eight blocks) to store, school, playground, or to a friend's home?

today that gets you arrested and the kids taken by DCFS
11 posted on 03/22/2015 4:13:37 PM PDT by stylin19a (obama = Eddie Mush)
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The list (after clicking through several sites):

1. Will your child be six years, six months or older when he begins first grade and starts receiving reading instruction?

2. Does your child have two to five permanent or second teeth?

3. Can you child tell, in such a way that his speech is understood by a school crossing guard or policeman, where he lives?

4. Can he draw and color and stay within the lines of the design being colored?

5. Can he stand on one foot with eyes closed for five to ten seconds?

6. Can he ride a small two-wheeled bicycle without helper wheels?

7. Can he tell left hand from right?

8. Can he travel alone in the neighborhood (four to eight blocks) to store, school, playground, or to a friend’s home?

9. Can he be away from you all day without being upset?

10. Can he repeat an eight- to ten-word sentence, if you say it once, as “The boy ran all the way home from the store”?

11. Can he count eight to ten pennies correctly?

12. Does your child try to write or copy letters or numbers?


13 posted on 03/22/2015 4:18:08 PM PDT by Half Vast Conspiracy (!)
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Not trying to justify helicopter parents but I understand the reasoning for some.

The middle class opportunities are not good.
In my day you could be a skilled trades guy or get a degree from a big 10 school and expect to make a decent living.

Now that’s much less likely. So the parents desperately try and get their kids into primo schools so they can become masters of the universe.


15 posted on 03/22/2015 4:19:25 PM PDT by nascarnation (Impeach, convict, deport)
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I went to 1st grade just a few years before this 1979 guide.

I consider myself to be very fortunate, in that I grew up in a true neighborhood (resembled tv shows of the 1950s). My parents knew everybody in the neighborhood...all the adults in the neighborhood acted like adults...and (to my chagrin) if I misbehaved anywhere in the neighborhood, my parents would find out about it.

Sadly, those days seem to be over.

BTW, I walked around 1/2 mile home (had my twin brother to keep me company), without incident. Can’t say the same for the bus ride itself - 1970’s busing in Alabama was a chaotic mess, that even a 6 year old kid could notice.


17 posted on 03/22/2015 4:24:48 PM PDT by lacrew
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How do you get to the comments? I clicked everything, including “Load Comments,” and couldn’t get any comments :o(


24 posted on 03/22/2015 5:13:33 PM PDT by Mrs. Don-o (Cordially.)
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Just remembered the character Scout Finch in To Kill a Mockingbird was only 6 years old at the beginning of the book. Think she was 9 at the end.


30 posted on 03/22/2015 6:41:54 PM PDT by Mathews (Ecclesiastes 10:2 (NIV), Luke 22:36 (NIV))
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I was 9, my brother 6 when we delivered newspapers. We were too young to “own” the route, but my older brother who was 14 was working full time in a grocery store. It was at least a 2 mile jaunt, closer to 3. The money earned, went into the “kitty” as did a significant portion of my brothers money to defray expenses. When I got a full time job, and my brother was playing sports, my 3 sisters took over the route and ran it until the last one was 16 years old. We had seven kids, mom at home full time, and a father who made sure we ALL participated in the expense of life. To this day, I can do nearly any job, and can live on the barest of income. It is a lesson we all learned well. Every sibling still alive is working or retired, no welfare, no addicts.


31 posted on 03/22/2015 7:05:25 PM PDT by Glad2bnuts
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