Stop thinking about men-and-women. Marriage has not been about them for 40 years. Read your state’s marriage license. It’s a contract between you and the state wherein both parties must agree to the state’s terms, jurisdiction and judgment.
Let me boil it down to some really simple stuff. If someone were to invent a valve that could be implanted into a man’s vas deferens, which he could turn on and off at will, feminists would blow a gasket.
How could they get child support, alimony, etc....?
The horror!