I've known some DeeDee's...in my career.
First, the anecdote about DeeDee was not to condemn DeeDee, but to show how frail and feeble my own mind and good intentions turn out to be. I am not confessing her faults, but mine.
Second. DeeDee was the single exception to the uniformly high standards of professionalism and kindness which I have encountered since my medical crisis.
God sent me DeeDee for a reason!