These guys made the mistake of believing women told them what they want when most women don’t seem to even KNOW what they want.
Stop trying to be exactly what you think she wants you to be and start being yourself. While your at it learn how to shoot and conceal carry.
They don’t know what they want because their education and intellectual reasoningtell them they want handsome but functionally effeminate men while their biology tells them they want a real man. They marry the Vogue iconic man and after a time are just plain unsatisfied. Something is terribly missing and they don’t ever figure it out.