Well, not quite, but I'm not 50 either.
My comment wasn't intended to suggest my disapproval of her now, necessarily, nor at 50.
What I did mean to say was that carrying that kind of weight when young often leads to health concerns later on or maybe just a less active life.
I'm still in the gym several days every week, I was in the mountains for at least ten days this elk season, I do what I can to stay light and limber these days, if not exactly toned and tanned.
I can tell you that my wife and I weigh in at the same weight we did when we were married a couple decades ago (she is actually less these days) and our lives are better, much better, because of it.