I attract stalkers. Why? I have no idea. I have had 3 romantic stalkers and 3 violent stalkers...One is actually a co-worker. I deal with it as best I can.
We had to sell our home outside Sedona because of one violent stalker, a bi-polar. It was the only way we could get away from him. Another bi-polar is right here where I live. He almost cost me my job because I confronted him in the street.
The co-worker (hates women and is an abuser) and mental stalker stopped when I told them that I had installed a pin point camera system all around the house and that they would be on video. It was the only way I could stop the property damage, which was significant. They still keyed my vehicle when it is at work.
They are a nightmare to deal with and these people have my prayers and sympathy.
Sounds like you need a Robert McCall type from the old “Equalizer” TV series.
Please be safe.