I think we all agree THAT definitely wasn’t healthy. Your heart could only go out to the guy...and his wife.
Good God. What a thing. He appeared to be TERRIFIED to go home, not that he didn’t want to. He seemed not to be able to muster up the courage to do it. Just wow.
But it happens.
He did not want to taint his wife with what he had seen, but you have to talk about it.
IF you are allowed to talk about it...
And that is another entire concern.
Some are forced to live separate secret lives.
That is rough on the marriage and it is rough on the furniture.