I agree with you to an extent; however, there is this.
Once in a while, when he was single, my husband and his brother-in-law would attend cookouts given by black employees of the family business...big rural affairs, lots of good country people, cold beer, etc.
In the course of conversation, husband and BIL were told quite frankly that black men like white women because they're "more fresh."
Me and my ten foot pole wouldn’t touch that one, but I know different than that.