At first I was going to ask him about the risk to a family member. Then it hit me. Who’d marry him???!!!
What came to my mind was the teenage daughter who jumped out of the closet and said ‘BOO’ to her father to surprise him. He shot her dead with a .357. http://www.nytimes.com/1994/11/09/us/startled-father-fatally-shoots-his-daughter.html