Me too. 27 years ago (28 next month!) this sort of thing just didn’t happen. A couple of babies had lived, but they weren’t healthy. My little son was born, no one knows why my water broke and he came home two weeks before his due date, May 2, with no meds and no monitors. Oh it was a rough row to hoe for a couple of years, but by 3 he’d caught up and most issues were resolved. (minor)
Oh, forgot to say, he was due May 2, but arrived Jan 16. How old is your daughter?