Stalking is terrifying and serious. I am sorry that is happening to you. I have had 2 stalkers- both men I dated who didn’t take kindly to me ending things. I am almost untraceable and do look in my rear view mirror occasionally.
One of them did trace me to a town I had relocated to in an effort to get away from him. A couple of years later, i was shopping with a girlfriend and we were at a makeup counter at a dept store. I was adjusting a mirror to check the color of some makeup I had applied to my face and when I looked in the mirror, I saw him behind me, trying to hide behind a table stacked with perfume.
Completely.
Terrifying.
Well, they never got to my bunny rabbits, so that’s always been a relief.
If you think we’re funny, you should hear my brother tell the story about of them.
Makes me cringe but, he’s funny and anyone not hearing the stories is usually laughing and giving me pity at the same time...