Understood. Blessings accrue to you for being a good son: “Honor your father and mother (this is the first commandment with a promise), that it may go well with you and that you may live long in the land.
And prayers for your successful escape when you have fulfilled your duty!
If I had a nickel for every “You are a good son” I’ve heard (especially from people who gleefully move a thousand miles away from their parents, or who toss them into a “home”.)
I am writing down the stories in order to write a book when this is all over. These are my sixth and seventh elderly relatives that my wife and I have lead down the final path.
I call them my “Octos.”