If women don’t want men to notice them why do they dress the way they do? Do they go into a dress shop and say, “I think I’ll buy this dress or sweater or slacks because its going to make me look unattractive?” I don’t think so. Jus’ sayin’.
So true.
Like the women who get the breast implants, show their great new expensive cleavage, then complain that men speak to their chests rather than look them in the eye.
Women dressed so they don’t look like they’re looking to make a favorable and/or sexy impression are regularly derided on FR for not making that effort.
But there is a difference between wanting to look good and wanting to be harassed, or borderline harassed, by strangers on the street. Undoubtedly, some women enjoy such attention, but many don’t, at least when it is offered in an aggressive or intimidating way.
I’m going to state the absolute truth about today’s young woman. Before I do, I want to make it clear that I am also a woman; my comments are based on my observations.
Like it or not, the way a woman dresses is geared to the reaction she wants. If she is going to a singles bar with her friends hoping to meet someone, she will dress in a way that clearly signals she is available...........to the right man, because she is. She’s not going to admit this to herself as she gets ready for the evening. The problem arises when a man recognizes that signal and decides to see if he is the right man. The woman in turn becomes enraged because the guy didn’t already know he isn’t Mr. Right. How dare mister wrong hit on her out of ignorance!
Women who are out for the evening with their girlfriends and intend to keep it that way dress more modestly, although there is the occasional tease, the married woman who wants to attract attention just for fun.
The woman in this video is available to the right man. She foolishly expects the wrong men to somehow know where they stand without trying.
What the woman is wearing is immaterial. I’ve been catcalled while wearing a thick winter coat that covered me from chin to mid calf, and knee high boots beneath it. I’ve been catcalled dressed up, and dressed down. Some areas of town, you never get catcalled (unless there’s construction going on); other areas, the only women who don’t get catcalled are the young and the elderly.