I may be missing your sarcasm, but you do realize that ‘she’ is a he, right? That’s part of the story, The male chef had a male ‘wife’ who was presenting as a ‘transgendered woman.’
Yes, you missed my sarcasm, but I’m also not sure what gender the deceased was. Apparently, she/he had yet to have a full-scale sex-change operation. From the pictures, though, I assume that she/he was on female hormones.
Too much cleavage for a guy.