It is a foul, destructive “custom” that arose in response to greatly over-hyped bachelor parties held by a few well-known men in the entertainment industry who were marrying for no reason other than professional advantage. They never intended to be monogamous.
So, now we have the fallout of feminism with women trying to one-up and outdo what men are supposed to have been doing, based upon a largely artificial notion created by Hollywood.
Stupid, isn’t it? Maybe a little well-aimed mockery will help reign it in.
Some well aimed mockery seems to be the problem in this instance.