I went in for a routine monthly OB check on Wednesday only to find out that our baby boy had suffered “fetal demise” a couple of weeks previous. I called my husband, he met me at home and we, along with our older kids, picked a name for him. You are right, it helps. Even though I never got to meet him, I saw him on a previous ultra sound kicking and bouncing like he was playing.
The difference is, I didn’t purposely kill my baby.