Women who whore around and wonder why there aren’t any ‘nice’ guys willing to ‘take care of her.
OMG, I had an epic verbal skirmish with the SIL over that subject in the past. She could not in any way accept the fact that socially, a woman who slept with scads of guys was going to have an extremely high probability of farming cats, alone, in her later years. She actually mentioned during the discussion that there should be some type of law like solution to this!
I was tearfully reported to the wife as "being unfair because I used logic" after crushing her rhetorically. This woman teaches too...
I think a man can handle a woman who had problems in her past (who has not), but whoring is a major red flag. Husbands get killed by the lovers of their wives and their kids are in danger.
As for being taken care of, I hear men are sick of the idea that they have to work themselves to death so wifey-poo can live the ‘dream life’ they feel entitled to.
Put frankly, the idiot women need to stop acting like kids and I’m sick of hearing horror stories about how men marry someone they think will be as ‘free’ (get my drift?) after marriage as before, but go figure, the women go all prude on them.
Messing around like that isn’t funny and often by thirty, a woman ends up broken emotionally and psychologically. As for lifestyle, by thirty I believe that if a woman doesn’t have at least something solid on her resume, she’s going to end up old and alone and in poverty without a husband, the kind of husband, that she wants.
Since people are marrying at older ages, if a woman wants to be taken care of, she has to find the dupe in college/university or end up dating like crazy while she’s young. Put frankly, I do believe that your SIL’s reaction about there needing a law, like to require men to marry used up sluts, is the reason relationships are impossible to form these days without men knowing the woman in question WELL, or worrying about why bother in the first place.
Any smart woman knows that being prepped for real life, the future, doesn’t make you a cynic or a bad person. Somewhere along the line, society treats being responsible with being a mistrusting cynic. As if being smart makes you a bad immoral person. I’m quite frankly kind of cynical and lately I am kind of gloating about how these Pollyanna idiots are facing cold hard reality about their asinine idealism.
I thank God that I’m smart enough to be practical and pragmatic.