I am sorry to hear about your husband. My late father was an alcoholic, and I’ve known several bipolar people. Combined, that must have been difficult.
That said, passive-aggressive behavior is marked with anger that is not clearly communicated and behavior that is negative and confusing.
It was curious for you to call my well communicated displeasure with a particular poster’s comments as passive-aggressive. Seemed like you didn’t know what the phrase meant.
I’m ok now and I really do know, in spite of how it looked in my post. :)