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Porn may be mostly created by men....I could go even further and say its disproportionately made by Jews and distributed by Italians

But now folks make porn at home and sell it on the internet....the San Fernando Valley model has been eclipsed by the internet

Gone the way of Blockbuster ....now anyone can look on the computer or hook their TV via HDMI and stream porn from their phone

There have always been women making porn from Candida Royalle and Suze Randall to Naughty Allie today

Who is cheating or not is not dependent on who’s making it.

I’m almost 57 and have enjoyed many women before my rib and never knew one who wasn’t at least curious about porn and some who requested it but did so as a couple....not as a substitute where a married man might preferring that to his wife.....which is bizarre to me but......understanding the nuance or complications of sexual relations between men and women is not something that will ever be mastered

Hence....unless the man dumps his wife for porn I disagree with the premise even though I’m ambivalent about porn and the impact in general....ambivalent in the dictionary sense.....a word of emotion usually misunderstood

For instance

Wife loses interest in sex....it happens.

Man has stronger interest in adventurous sex....I mean some folks...likely on this very forum consider oral sex verboten...a sin.

Wife quits taking care of herself.....it happens.... porn girl is younger and fitter.....this can sequence to cheating but at what point does wife bear responsibility for having a fat apron?

Man only has porn and likely will never really have a woman.... erotic westerns.....same instrument really....doesn’t work for visual men versus less visual girls

Those are just off the top of my head..... complications standing in the way of broad firm edicts like this title.

I do think the more public the porn...its a bad cultural indicator

And I think women in relationships view porn as competition....and that can be at times.

I think women like porn too....and the ones I have known prefer hard porn more than fuzzy.....don’t ask me why....fantasizing about something they wouldn’t do themselves....the rougher non romantic stuff....sorta submissive......or maybe surrendering control is more descriptive.......which is why so many women swooned over 50 shades....I did not read it...lol.....its a chick book like a Longhorn erotic WESTERN

I don’t think Playboy is porn....in fact its become just another men’s magazine gone soft and run by fembots and faggots where Lisa Lampanelli is lol...edgy

I think there is more than enough porn already.....please

But if a couple wants to watch it at home and get stimulated its not my business

I think lonely women who use toys and watch porn or read the afore mentioned throbbing westerns are just fine if that is all they can get in their sex and romance life

Adults need sex....it is the closest to pure intimacy between a man and woman possible and is the cement of a strong marriage....normally

I’ve been faithful(not my strong suit prior to marriage) to the mother of my 5 kids for 20 years and she turns 50 in two weeks

I would wish that for everyone.....you can’t beat it

But some folks don’t have that and if all they have are video or literary fantasies

I’m not gonna judge them

And normally I have no problem judging folks....but not over this except is problem cases I already elucidated

I think women in porn get damaged.....but they usually went in with issues already

The men....not so much....some but not most

There was actually a documentary on this recently....still on Comcast

Meanwhile horrors go on in Iraq which truly do matter but I couldn’t resist your salacious thread...