1. a woman
or
2. a Christian.
Why you seem to believe that anyone is interested in your sex life is a mystery to me, not to mention, odd.
You are making a few errors here:
1. In this day and age, you can no longer assume that a person referring to their "husband" is a woman, or if so was actually born that way.
2. You can no longer assume that because a person refers to themselves as a Christian or goes to a church that calls itself Christian that they actually believe anything resembling Christianity.
3. There is a specific group of people who DEFINES their identity by their sex life and wants everyone to know about it.
You’re absolutely right.