Interesting how many of the posts are either “I ate too much” or “I’m sweaty and gross”.
I suspect there’s more afoot here, btw. Were I the guy, I would at least contemplate the possibility that the missus might be one or more of the following: A) Frigid. B) Gay. C) Sleeping with somebody else.
The answer was ‘yes’ 3 times in one month. A couple of my friends (they are a bit older) would consider that frequent. :)
If it was C. then he’s notice she is dressing better,
fixing her hair, wearing make-up and seemingly happier.
Do not ask me how I know.
or HE might be lousy in the sack
She says "Our lives have been crazy busy,' she wrote. 'We spent all spring renovating our new house. At my job I was given nearly double my usual workload after some of my colleagues were laid off. I gained some weight in the winter and have been busting my a** at the gym to get rid of it"
That's a big clue. She's keeping herself in shape for someone else. Given a choice, most husbands would prefer frequent sex with a chubby wife over no sex with slim wife. And I would not be surprised if he "working late due to increased workload" was a lie.
It's time for him to leave. Create a bank account in his name only, put all his paycheck in that, stop paying for house expenses (you know she's going to get the house regardless), and file for divorce.
“might be one or more of the following: A) Frigid. B) Gay. C) Sleeping with somebody else.”
Nope.
Control.