In a sexually satisfying relationship, sex accounts for 10% of the relationship.
In an unsatisfying sexual relationship, sex accounts for 90% of the relationship.
Don’t ask how I know this.
I know, everytime, something is up when sex all of a sudden stops, becomes irregular or just doesn’t feel right.
In every instance there are tell signs that go along with it like asinine comparisons to other people about things that really don’t matter.
One kept some idiot haridan and telling me how much smarter than me she was. Apparently, a college graduate with a Masters in something unimportant but, was on welfare.
didn’t compute.
Of course, my bloated ego never believes crap like that.
somehow they think they can use the fact that I dropped out of high school as the beginning of their campaign to marginalize me.
never mind that I had straight A’s through school, tested out of high school in the 10th grade, went to college (though I didn’t complete, as I decided I didn’t want to be a cop) and that I am a voracious reader and learner.
I’m also the number one child of six and I lived with my competitors for 18 years. I know how to dispense idiots and am quick to do it.
besides, I’m good looking, charming, always looking for a laugh, challenges excite me and I generally make more money than most, am well traveled speak Spanish and can pick up languages fairly quick and even do okay at German, Tagolog and a bit of Korean.
So when I started getting the battle of the wits thing from someone set on riding a broom, I usually go along with em and set then up to ride lightning, with a smile.
This guy probably missed all the other cues. I don’t miss em and usually give them the proof they aren’t dealing from the top of the deck.
I don’t like dirty pool players and if you are going to present evidence contrary to a whole relationship and worse, against reality, then the days aren’t much longer.
maybe it’s those four years I spent as a Sheriff Explorer and learning about tells from very experienced cops I rode with or criminals who gave me life advice when I worked in the jail.
the guy needs to assess what is really going on and be strong enough to walk, for his own self worth or go through life being victimized.
Life’s too short to take the whole thing seriously and no one gets out alive.
live it up baby and enjoy the ride.
Even bad relationships can be fun but, they come with a time limit.
Know when to ring the bell and move on.
Oh and I never got married. Don’t think I will and not sure at 50 I even care.
I just want to enjoy good company as equals or be left alone.
I got my friends, my dog and my family.
I’m okay with me.
Dear, is that you?!
For you maybe. Not for a man. I guarantee it.