Good answer. Although fortunately, I am happily out of the “game” having been married for 15 years, here’s my long answer version:
It is a tiny bit irksome how a certain segment of Anglo-American men deify Asian women as if they are all these dainty, submissive epitomes of femininity whose farts smell like potpourri.
It’s understandable if men are attracted to a certain type (I’ve always preferred 6-foot tall blond, blue-eyed men and that’s who I married). It’s also true that a large segment of women can be very strident about having their way. But I would say that about many Americans in general, not just women. American man are not without their fault. Many men lack basic gentlemanly manners, yet some expect women to act like prim and proper ladies all times. This belief that there are no decent American women who will be faithful, honorable and non-materialistic is baffling. In a nation of over 150,000,000 women of various ethnic, social, religious, and political groups there is going to be a lot of variety.
Women are women worldwide. Sometimes we get “bitchy”, most times we are loving and sweet. Such is the mellifluous nature of woman. If a man wants an unchanging female who will obey him her whole life long, get a dog and have her spayed. But if a woman is treated with love, decency and a little bit of appreciation, she will return her love tenfold (there are expections of course, but that is human nature).
I live in New York, a state vilified on this site for its strident Yankeeism, and yet my four sisters and I are all married, traditional, God-believing ladies (albeit I am the lone conservative). With us, there are no two faces; what you see is what you get. There’s no fakery. Being of Hispanic heritage might have something to do with this, :).
I think some men enjoy the “mystery” of the Asian female and some are easily fooled by the appearance of obeisance, when in reality the woman is in control; the poor saps just don’t realize it.
“Women are women worldwide.......”
“I think some men enjoy the “mystery” of the Asian female and some are easily fooled by the appearance of obeisance, when in reality the woman is in control; the poor saps just don’t realize it.”
The kind of “Woman” these men want is a “Stepford wife”. That is not a woman but a robot. Then again men screw blow up dolls every day so who am I to judge? Don’t say that to be crude but to make a point. Men who want to have sex with robots are nothing more than robots themselves.