As an oriental, I am attracted to my Caucasian husband because of his look, build, intelligence, ambition, work ethics, and sublime self-confidence. He looks like Bruce Willis, just a little bit darker and more chiseled. When I met him in 2007, he barely recovered from congestive heart failure that almost killed him and being totally broke! Now he works over 60 hours during a slow week in winter and makes over $200000 a year.
I can only say we Orientals are probably not attracted to you either, maybe because we can not find much potential in you or just because your image in a mirror is just too much different from Bruce Willis, Arnold Schwarzenegger, Brendan Fraser, or Keanu Reeves, etc. FYI, I know I was raised to find a diamond in mud because I was in mud too myself and we understand how hard life can be.
If you discriminate against a certain group of people, it must be because you are either ignorant or insecure. The only way you can conquer your issues is to face them.
The only way you can conquer your issues is to face them.
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Very good post, mulan.
I fail to see how someone “discriminates” against a particular population simply by virtue of not generally finding them sexually attractive. You have no right to be desired by others. People like what they like. I don’t particularly care for black girls or redheads, either. So what? If that bothers you for some reason, look inward, because you’re the one with the problem.