My wife is Korean and I don’t see it as male dominated. She certainly is not a meek woman.
I think its because they accept that men and women are different. She’s not constantly trying to provide she’s a better man then I am.
I always got a kick out of people who think asian women are compliant. What a crock.
My wife is Italian and I think you have identified an important part of what makes my marriage work. She and I seldom find ourselves struggling over making a decision.
I have seen a couple who argued heatedly over exactly where to place their garbage can at the curbside for pickup. How they ever came to believe that they should both be involved in such a decision is a mystery to me and my wife.
Yes. That acceptance becomes obvious within the first 30 seconds of the first conversation. It is very attractive and somehow relaxing.
I’ll pick on you to tell my story.. :)
Several months ago, I had a date with a beautiful Taiwanese Chinese woman.. She was a bit younger (eyes roll) than I usually date, and she could only speak a few phrases of English, and I spoke no Chinese.. but I digress..
I took her to a great Thai restaurant that I had called in advance to insure that the waitstaff had a person that could speak Chinese from the area that she was born, and they did..
She was absolutely stunning, in a grab your heart, kind of way.. Dressed in a silk floral dress, with her pencil thin figure, black shimming hair tied atop her head, accentuating her neck and porcelain skin, and her almond eyes.. Well, you get my drift..
The evening started great, we arrived at the restaurant and I asked that she ordered our meal, not having any idea what she might like, she demurred, but I respectfully insisted..
She smiled, and I smiled, and the conversation was awkward at best but cute, and the translations, through the waiter, were strained but fun.. I was shocked and pleased that she had a voracious appetite, and we ate several different types of their vast menu selections..
However, I became somewhat uncomfortable, because I was holding my stomach in, and couldn’t hardly consider loosening my belt.. It became a problem after a while because I’m sure I was turning blue, and began to get a little lightheaded..
By the end of the dinner, although I was still giddy with her petite beauty, even if there wasn’t a language barrier, we had little in common, except for food, and travel, that I haven’t repeated the pleasure..
My personal appeal for foreign women has been blunted by the reality of my age and my needs.. I want a witness, a companion to share our experiences in these precious few years we have left..
If I do look for someone, and I am less inclined to do it, I want someone to tell all of my stories to, and leave you folks to enjoy yours without my nonsense.. LOL