There is a time to turn the other cheek and there is a time the offender will only learn from facing the unpleasant consequences of their injustices. People like Victoria interpret the charity and compassion of this boy as cowardice, borne of someone who concedes that she probably has the correct opinion after all, so why bother debating her? This will (continue to)be the most common method of the Jihadists, Angry Atheists and Gender Deists. We have to prepare our selves and our kids to push back sometimes. Why should the conservative or christian be expected to accept the role of Whipping Boy all of the time? Sometimes, let it go, other times, stand your ground! Burger King has not fired her yet? Why not?
But if you refuse to forgive, you have already given up Christian faith and morals as taught by Jesus Christ Himself. And if you give up on the precepts and example of Jesus, what do you have left? The other side --- the side of Evil --- has accomplished what they wanted: your eternal woe.