hadn’t been to many wedding then, I am guessing. My niece threw it and some dweeb got it and had to put it on the girl, it was semi-awkward, but was quickly done and over with.
He was not from the area, so didn’t know.
Yes, it’s awkward and best done quickly. The origin, of course, is to create the next couple. And there’s no better way to get to know someone than to slide your hands up under her dress!