A few months ago I was waiting on line in a bagel shop and this black guy was at the front. He got a bagel and a coffee and when he tasted the coffee he got mad and said he “axed for sugar”...I thought he was going to throw the coffee. Then incredibly, or maybe no so incredibly, he accused the counter guy of being racist! LOL! I started cracking up and he glared at me, he was freakin’ serious! What a jackass, the guy forgets to give him sugar yes because he is racist. Yes, I can just see the KKK holding secret meetings in a basement “Hey boys, today we’re gonna git those dayum dirty neegrows by taking their SUGAR from their coffee! Yeah, that’ll show ‘em!!” LOL!
When you axe and don't get what you want, that's a micro-aggression. Having suffered a micro-aggression, he was justified in his wrath - at least, in his mind.