I don’t.
God has said it is an abomination before Him.
He has commanded His people not to do it. That means they have a choice. Many have come out of the homosexual lifestyle after repenting from it and receiving God’s forgiveness through Christ.
This could be a quibble of terminology. This isn’t really a “celibate homosexual.” It is a “celibate person having abnormal feelings.”
God isn’t judging anybody for how they feel. (Taunting people about how they feel is Satan’s game.) God only judges people for what they do.