Let the secret be your penance....you suffer and everyone else lives in peace...why spread the misery around.
I get what your saying but the dad and the kid have a right to know. Wow, what an awful situation, come clean and let the cards fall where they may. Hopefully someone will learn something from the pain this person is suffering and the pain they are about to inflict on others.
Thank you - let the secret be your penance, indeed and Amen.
Because secrets aren't forever, sooner or later the truth will be discovered........and then what?
Will the discovery of your partner's infidelity be lessened simply because you found out 10, 15 years later? And if so, what assurance do you have that your partner wasn't also screwing around for the past 10 or 15 years with other people?
Marriage is based on total trust, and if that trust is broken just once, where is the guarantee that it won't or hasn't been broken again?