I totally agree as long as your wife has remained faithful...
I just don't think our family could ever recover from the hurt, anger and resentment that would ensue.
Some things are simply not worth it...
Coming clean would destroy a marriage, a father daughter relationship and an intact family...
Let her live with her guilt...
I guess the question is genetics...are there diseases that could erupt or things like diabetes that are considered inherited...so if she dies ....who would be able to explain it if the husband does not know. Doesn’t the child need to know eventually who their real father is?