...and don’t forget to give her half your stuff and the kids when you bail on an adulterous wife.
It’s not half your stuff. It’s her half from being in the marriage. That’s what marriage means.
There’s no part of the marriage deal that says when the marriage ends, what was once ‘ours’ suddenly becomes wholly ‘mine.’
As far as the kids go, I agree, family law should be much more fair to men in matters regarding children.