“They did give her an IEP, though ...”
Sorry - I should have read your post better. You obviously know what you are doing. But it IS so frustrating.
That’s ok! She’s got an IEP but is not in the Special Ed program, which I didn’t know was possible until this year. The private Educational Psychologist said the school was doing us a favor because with her test scores being above the cut off (just above) they didn’t have to give her the IEP. This at least allows her extra time for tests in a quiet place. And a resource class (basically a study hall with teachers and aids to help) 3x a week.