Your picture is irrelevant.
My marital status is ‘desperate’.
After giving this some more thought this afternoon, it occurred to me that another big factor, in addition to sex drugs, may be online personals. Not all online dating is about hooking up, of course, some if it is about companionship and committed relationships, but a lot if it is about hooking up. In addition to the big sites like match.com, there are niche sites for oldsters like OurTime..