Men and women are different. Doesn’t matter what year it is.
It’s a bridal shower, not a groomal shower.
Unless you are sitting around with your friends, farting, scratching your privates and talking about HUNTING, i sincerely doubt there is any difference as far as conversational norms.
” sitting around with your friends, farting, scratching your privates and talking about HUNTING”
A good friend of mine calls that a “cock party-it is usually a small party, and doesn’t last very long”-the first time she said that, her husband and mine were at a regular monthly poker playing gathering, and I’ve never forgotten it.