I never had my own cake. What kind of nonsense is this?
We did store the top layer in the freezer to have for our first anniversary.
I’ve been to weddings where there was no groom’s cake, but not that many-most of the time, it was a chocolate cake of some sort, either a sheet cake or with 2 layers-MrT5’s was chocolate with dark chocolate icing-German chocolate is popular, too...
Groom’s cakes are a Southern thing. We had one at our wedding. Chocolate with chocolate icing.