[humblegunner]

how is he different of all the rest of us who have lost someone

Good point.

[chajin]

how is he different of all the rest of us who have lost someone

Each man's death diminishes me,
For I am involved in mankind.
Therefore, send not to know
For whom the bell tolls,
It tolls for thee.
-John Donne

May he rest in peace, and may his family have peace.