Actually there is a need to have an erection, without them the population would soon end. I think I understand what you are trying to say but the “fun” aspect is an integral part of intercourse for both males and females. Imagine if, to have intercourse it was painful for both males and females. And having intercourse with the total lack of conceiving (sp?) has only become an expectation since the widespread use of BC began sometime in the 70s. Interestingly I recently heard on Glenn Beck’s show that the preponderance of those using erectile dysfunction drugs has now become the 30s and below age groups due to their use of porn.
It is not necessary for the INDIVIDUAL to live and as they say, thrive. No jokes from the peanut gallery and men who think they “need” this - no, you don’t; you want it. We’re talking whether the individual survives medically, not whole population prospects. Each individual DOES need to eat, and drink. Making sex like it is something absolutely necessary feeds into the myth and into Idiocracy and all kinds of illegitimacy, leading to children who didn’t ask to be in the crappy situations they are. We’ve already reached that point that it is showing. Men can pay for their own sex drugs.