That’s why the school has to stop EVERYONE to see who they are and if they are the people listed on the legal paperwork that has right of access to the child. That paperwork is REQUIRED of everyone when they enroll their child in school. NO ONE can gain access unless they are listed - no matter if they are a relative or not or if the parent asked them for a favor to pick up the child. They HAVE TO BE LISTED.
You’re wasting your time - or as George Carlin said - “Never argue with an idiot. They will only bring you down to their level and beat you with experience.”
Logically that takes place at the door, when someone requests to be buzzed in. (This is why you don’t buzz in every Tom, Dick and Harry at the door without identifying them).
1) See who is at the door.
2) If you don’t identify the person, ask for identification.
3) If the person is still unknown and asks for access to a child, verify that the person has been given *parental permission* to access the child.
4) Determine whether to buzz in or no.
a) Not permitted? Don’t buzz in.
b) Permitted? Buzz in.
Astounding, using a buzzer system which is put in place to screen the unauthorized from the authorized. Novel idea, that.