I have known a lot of lesbians - the security industry seems to attract them.
Their relationships go something like this :
Madly in love - happiest I have ever been - having sex anywhere and at anytime we can -
6 weeks later moved in together -
2 weeks later bought a puppy together - constant texting a professions of love -
6 months later - I hate that cheating effing wh#re, b*tch, sl*t - physical violence ensues - spends the next 2 years threatening and proving how much she hates the other one while having started and ended at least 2 other relationships in that time and running the same cycle - no wonder so many of them are depressed/suicidal.
They are also a ball of joy to have in your family. doing exactly what you describe. And turning everyone’s lives upside down in the process.
I had an inlaw that fit that to a ‘T’. Oh and her GF was black in a largely white area so we got the ‘racist thing’ to go along with the rest of the drama..