Yes, there are girls who are funny, have intellectual depth, and are enjoyable company. Then again, my buddy Vinnie has all those qualities, but with far less baggage, drama, and demands for "commitment". The one quality he DOESN'T have, is he doesn't sexually excite me (something he would certainly be very relieved to hear).
The first prerequisite is that the woman give the guy a hard-on. If she can't accomplish that, then she has no advantage over his male friends. If, ON TOP OF THAT BASIC REQUIREMENT, she is a good person who's fun to be with, then she's a winner.
Well, yes, sexual attraction is important.
One thing men should look out for, is how willing is a woman in question willing to give it up. The more a woman gives before marriage, the less of it she’s going to give AFTER marriage. Funnily, before marriage if it’s lingerie and silk/lace teddies, it’s often sweatpants and cotton shirts with big thick white cotton underwear after marriage.
All advertising is false. What a woman advertises, is what disappears after the honeymoon. Once men realize that they’ll start being a lot smarter about their choices.