only a perverted mind can think that. when i am with a woman there’s no way i could be having sex with her but be thinking of a guy.
“only a perverted mind can think that. when i am with a woman there’s no way i could be having sex with her but be thinking of a guy.”
Because you have the common and accepted sexual attraction. Nobody will tell you it is wrong or perverted. These men in the closet are terrified of “coming out” and maintain relationships with women as a front. They may only act on their attraction in secret.
There are men out there who have the same sexual attraction to men that women have. Sometimes they are also attracted to women and sometimes not at all.
We may consider it a disease, perverted, etc. What you think of it is up to you but the fact is that some people have a nearly 100% attraction to the same sex and this typically can not be changed.
Reprogramming very gay men is the equivalent of trying to program you and me to be sexually attracted to men. Never happening. Only men that are bisexual to begin with can be convinced to only have relationships with women.
It’s difficult to imagine from a “straight” perspective but sexuality can be very different and weird in some individuals. Even many straight people have strange fetishes.