Of course, which was my point all along.
When everyone knows, they ride the emotional roller coaster.....
My point all along,
So you don’t feel a father or grandfather of a family is allowed to have his family spend time with him as he dies? Keeping secrets and hiding illnesses is not a family trait, it is a selfish hoarding of information that affects the entire family. It is the ultimate control issue and I just find it to be selfish, not in the least stoic.