I'm female, so not looking for violent games....
Never mind. (Although EVE had an all-female pirate corporation for a while, if I recall correctly, its motto was: "Don't forget, you got beaten by a girl. Yarr!")
I’d also highly recommend EVE Online, but that won’t fly (literally) where she’s going to be.
BTW, we moved our little corp to nullsec (Cobalt Edge) back in October to join the Explicit Alliance.
Got in on the HED-GP and B-R5RB actions, plus a whole bunch of lesser ones.
Can’t even imagine returning to highsec.